And cons of dating older men
Older doesn’t always mean wiser, and they may have a lot of baggage.
So perhaps they’re not anyone to learn or take advice from. One of these pros is that they are often more financially stable.
If you aren’t particularly flush, dating someone older can mean a step up in the financial bracket.
Of course this can be a wonderful thing when it comes to quality of life…and you no longer have to fear your landlord or pick up the check.
Sometimes dating someone who is too mature can be a real downer.
Someone who is older than you can be your teacher in a number of ways.
And then you learn that the same year you graduated college, he was wrapping up his freshman year—of high school.
Maturity means he’s experienced the world, he knows what he wants and most likely…he knows how to get it!
He’s comfortable being a man and knows the right things to say and do to make a woman feel like a lady.
Realizing your new boyfriend is just a few years younger than your father is a harsh reality.
Remind yourself what ignited this initial attraction and focus on that.